Currently in Athens, and I won’t be writing up about our trip until we are at our next housesit. So in the meantime, here is a post about something different.
Do you remember the excitement of receiving a letter in the post with foreign stamps attached to it and that thrill of hearing once again from a friend that lived far away?
It was for me. Up there as one of the highlights of my teenage years.
How it all began.
I always looked forward to Nana, who you could say was my first pen pal, coming across from Gisborne sometimes on the bus or with other family members who would drive her over. She would always bring with her a bundle of magazines and papers, which would be carefully placed in a square wicker basket [which I still have safely in storage].
Then there was the search for a particular magazine, not while Nana was visiting, as I was too interested in what she and Mum were chatting about. Though within minutes of the door closing behind her, a particular magazine would hold the key to more connections outside of our small town. Nothing much happened here during the early seventies unless it was summer; then we had the beach, the sun and with less emphasis on Jelly Tip ice creams with more on how the body looked in the new bikini.
The magazine that had been in Nana’s basket was finally in my hands.
The magazine in question was called The New Zealand Women’s Weekly, which is not the exciting part of my search; it was on an individual page titled; “Penpals from Abroad”. This page had my imagination on full throttle into an orbit that seemed so far away. At this point, I am referring to Australia, that country which we now refer to as just a hop and skip away and a smallish ditch to cross.
My first foreign pen-pal lived on the outskirts of Melbourne with her family and many huskies as pets. We wrote letters, sometimes with fancy paper and envelope or on an aerogramme angsting about our lives and dreams for many years until I turned 17.
Things changed as I had the opportunity to head over that ditch. No passport was required, just a return air ticket and travels checks [no credit card!]. Things were discarded or lost after shifting into too many flatting positions and countries in my twenties, with many photo albums not surviving the changes. It was a pity for the older me, though back then, it was too much living in the now with little thought of the future.
Now, most of us have a different way of communicating. That is, of course, through the internet, email, Facebook, Facetime, and Skype, to name just a few. One that is new to me, which I enjoy participating in, is blogging, and the bloggers I am interacting with remind me of my years of having a pen pal.
Penpals and bloggers, to me, are very similar; we are connecting and sharing our thoughts on a personal level, though blogging, of course, it has instant gratification, using a less personal way and, of course, a much larger audience than just one person.
Back to the present, it seems that some things have remained the same, as I still have a passion for writing and travelling. I wonder how many of you bloggers were once pen-pals to others who lived overseas or even in the same country?
Wouldn’t you love for a young child to experience the excitement of using a pen, paper and imagination to write letters, as we did? I hope the art of letter writing does not entirely disappear.
Wow, those old magazine covers are a hoot!!
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Aren’t they great!! I love them 🙂
Suz
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I loved having penpals, from both home and abroad. One of my penpals only lived five minutes up the road from me, another lived on the Outer Hebridean island of Barra and a third one lived in Tanzania!
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That is so cool Em, especially the last two that would’ve been very exotic to hear their every day stories. Yes, sometimes it’s not the distance it’s the connection 🙂
Suz
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I still enjoy writing a good old fashioned letter. Especially postcards when we are away. 🙂
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Unfortunately many places we have been have not had reliable postal services and others way to expensive. Sending postcards on short holidays a great idea, very expensive on a long term basis. Yes, I too love writing letters though now it’s mostly in a notebook. 🙂
Suz
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I had pen pals in Germany, France and the US when I was a teenager. I have no idea where any of them are now. However, one of my friends recently went to New York for the first time and met up with her penfriend of 50 years!
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Anabel you certainly had a good selection of penpals to learn all about their culture and country. My Mum still correspondences with her Scottish penpal, though less so in the last few years. Their penpal relationship has being going for many years!
Suz
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That’s excellent – very committed. Mine just fizzled out.
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So did mine, though I think it was more due to most settling down and getting married and I chose not to go down that track until later in life 🙂
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I used to love my pen pals! I had one in America that I regularly wrote to from the age of 9yrs until about 18! I often wonder what happened to her. I also regularly used to write to my French exchange friends. I loved the excitement of receiving a letter from the USA or France land on my doormat. Such a great idea for kids. Love your comparison between penpals & blogging pals too!
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Thanks Hayley, I think I would’ve been overjoyed to have a French one 🙂 Having an Australian penpal seemed so exotic back in the day!! Holding a letter that someone you enjoy hearing from is magic! My Nana wrote and sent a letter once a week to Mum and my Auntie [when she lived away] for many years, actually it must’ve been near 50 years or more!
Suz
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My Gran did exactly the same for my Mum & she only lived 10 miles down the road!
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That is so wonderful 🙂 Gives a special purpose to your day when you know someone is waiting to hear from you!
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I really miss letters and still love getting them. One of my friends used to write amazing missives from New York when he moved there but stopped as soon as we began emailing and then stopped even emailing when social media kicked in…such a pity.
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My sister and I email our Mum every day, well I try to do it every day 🙂 Yes, hopefully the next generations keep the art of letter writing going. The poetry of some letters written from England to distant relations in NZ was wonderful to read. Like the men who had gone to war!
Suz
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People in some ways were more adept at language I think…though they didn’t share their feelings like we do now they did it through their prose and poetry I guess…some of my friends still write and I try to send things off by posts, cards and stuff…always nice to get something.
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Yes you are so right Clare. I think when we are settled back into another home when we finish housesitting I shall get back to sending more post to the younger generation 🙂 As the previous generations did and some still do!
Suz
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What a nostalgic post and so loving to have had a pen pal for so many years. I never did that but knew people who did and saw them make life long friends from long distances. It is a thrill to get a hand written letter today from anyone, let alone a pen pal! No one writes letters any more it seems.
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Yes you are right, whether it is a lack of time and energy or monetary. We would love to send more post back home while away we have chosen not to as it is so expensive. Which is a pity, as I still buy cards and postcards 🙂
Suz
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I loved this Suz!! I had a Penpal in Canada for many years and loved hearing her exotic (to me anyway) news every so often. I agree with you that blogging and being a pen pal is quite similar. Enjoy your travels.
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Thanks Deb, well I thought a girl living in Melbourne was exotic 🙂 So Canada would’ve definitely been so much fun. Yes, I do think blogging is like being a pen-pal, just a bigger audience.
Suz
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Yes and on a much bigger scale too. always loved the name of where she lived and vowed I’d go there one day. I might just get onto that…
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Sounds like a good plan 😁
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I love this post! As a child and teenager I had penpals from around the world. Nothing excited me more than receiving a letter from them, and I would hunt for stationary and colorful ink for my fountain pen to write my letters with.
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Scarlet, I used to love getting writing sets for my birthday or Christmas 🙂 The wonderful fountain pen!!
Suz
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I love this post at such a deep and personal level, as you reminded me of years and years of letter writing, which started out writing to my grandparents and I had a penfriend who lived around Mildura in South Australia. In year 6, I filled out a penpal form and because I could count to ten in German and say a few phrases, I tick a box saying that I could speak German. Within a short time, I received letters in German from 3 German girls. I freaked out. Fortunately, my mum and grandfather speak and write German (I have German heritage), and they helped me.
I live in Europe in 1992 and I have all my letters and started looking through them to put that time down on paper, particularly to share with my kids. I also have all my letters from school. I have the lot…and photos. Everyone knows there’s incriminating evidence filed up in my roof.
I have a second blog where I’m retracing my travels in 1992. While doing the research, I found a letter in a book about London from the 1950s. Thought you’d enjoy it; https://wordpress.com/view/couchwanderings.wordpress.com
Best wishes,
Rowena
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Good on you for getting out of your comfort zone and receiving mail from Germany and even better that your parents could translate for you. Brilliant. Thanks for the link and will go and have a look.
Suz
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How this post touched my heart. Oddly, I commented to another blogger the other day that making friends in this place (or indeed on other social media platforms) is akin to having pen pals and that I consider my friends made this way to be just as valuable, just as precious as those made by living in the same street or working together or sharing school memories. Letters are so precious. My mother (85 last birthday) still writes to me and to her grandchildren and to many others. I know that they all keep her letters and I keep the odd selection of things she thinks I might like … clippings from newspapers, photos and shampoo samples. She used to send magazines but the ‘printed papers’ rate was abolished in Britain making it expensive for her to send them. But every week I write to her. And I will miss that sorely and the letters I receive the day she isn’t on earth any more. Thank you for this lovely lovely post ❤️
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Thanks Osyth and you are welcome 🙂 I am very happy that this post has brought back happy memories for so many. Yes, the postage is so expensive it makes sending ‘stuff’ overseas harder. I enjoy the dialogue with other bloggers and you get a gut instinct about people even through messages. It has done us well listening to our gut instinct when applying for housesits.
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I am sure it has!
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I never had a pen pal, but I think you are right about blogging being a similar way to communicate – except on a much larger scale.
Those old magazine covers are a hoot. I guess finding a husband (and then keeping him satisfied by cooking amazing meals) was THE most important goal in a young woman’s life.
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What do you mean it WAS the most important goal of a young woman’s life 🙂 Just joking. I love the vintage posters and magazine covers. By the way, your new blog page looks great!! I enjoy connecting with you and others who leave comments, just like penpals. 🙂
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I do see and appreciate the comparison between blogging and penpal writing! I didn’t have a penpal but had friends who moved overseas and made plenty of use of aerogrammes 🙂 While I like the idea of letter-writing, I find the use of the postal system burdensome and wasteful. I prefer to use email, and I think we can apply the same skills there. Technology should make it easier for us to spend more time on the part that matters, the content!
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Good point about spending more time on the content. Yes, I must admit I too have a dislike of the mail service now and the prices!! We can still do a letter format in emails, so it’s the same though different 🙂
Suz
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I never had a pen pal growing up. I always wanted one after watching tv shows that had them. However, growing up in the age of email and instant messaging, I was never able to get one. It’s always nice to hear stories like this. Even more so, it is really cool to see those old magazine covers!
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Thanks for your comment. Yes, I love those old magazine covers. Can you image that going down well, if it was printed on a modern magazine 🙂
Suz
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I always loved getting post cards from abroad and I sent many during my travels before the internet age. Even now, I make it a habit of sending a real postcard (usually with a foreign stamp, at least for the Belgian part of the family) to my three nieces and one nephew. I plan to keep that habit up forever, and I hope these kids will enjoy the foreign mail as much as I did, but I tend to doubt it. Suz, you keep amazing me with all those memories. I would never remember all those sentiments, visits and pen pals from my youth!!!
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Oh thank you Liesbet for that comment. Might have something to do with ageing 🙂 Memories are funny things, some things I remember quite clearly and others I can’t remember at all!! Thank goodness for recording such as blogging and notebooks 🙂 Time to go and check out another museum! Suz
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You’ve reminded me Suzanne about how my most reliable penpal was my Dad, and I didn’t reflect on that until long after he died. He always wrote to any of us kids when we were away every Sunday evening and had it in the postbox up the street by 9pm. When I was picking fruit in Earnscleugh his letter would be there by morning tea time the next day – the Post Office was much more efficient 40 years ago! His letters took longer to reach the Single Men’s Camp in North West Australia, but were just as regular. Long after he died his brother mentioned that their Dad used to write to them every Sunday when they were away from home. These men were from a time when men weren’t much into emotions and I can see that his reliable correspondence was as much a message of love. It took me 25 years to read between the lines. It’s a nice thought to hold and thanks for reminding me.
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Thanks Ross for sharing that information about your Dad. Yes, you didn’t talk much about your Dad, your Mum was mentioned more, which seems to be the case for many of us. You are right, it was his way of passing down the love. Maybe he had a moment when he thought of his Dad, and he wanted the same connection with his children. I still have letters, goodness knows which box they are located, written by myself thanking Nana for my gift of a hanky and a coin, I was around 8 years old. Every week she sent letters and unfortunately, I too appreciate them more now than I did when I was younger!! Thanks for commenting Ross, it was a surprise!. Having a siesta, until it cools down a wee bit 🙂
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Thanks Claire for the mention 🙂 Lovely read!
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You are welcome! This really took me back to the days of Penpals – mine was Finnish and spoke little English, and I spoke no Finnish x
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Now that would have been interesting and lots of fun trying to work through it 🙂
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I had a pen pal in Edinburgh for a few years…not that far away but he was from an British Indian family – so I was fascinated to learn so much about a different culture from him, although in a lot of ways we shared a lot of the same passions, mainly music. I unfortunately got a little freaked out when he started pushing to meet in person and got a male friend to pretend to be my dad and tell him I couldn’t meet up 😂 typical teen way of handling things. So that ended that one. Still, happy memories. He had the loveliest handwriting I had ever seen too!
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Em, it was a safe way of doing it, wish more kids learnt from you!! Some people have beautiful handwriting. With a few years at university and mine went awol. Funny l try to slow down so it looks more legible not working so far!! Never had a male penpal, 3 brothers put me off having male contact for a few years. 🙂
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I still write letters and thankyou cards but rarely receive them. The Magasines are great thoroughly enjoyed your post on #ThrowbackThursday.
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Thanks Ellen, good on you for still sending them. I am not sure most kids now would appreciate a written letter or card? I used to do it on a regular basis though now it gets to be too costly. Which is sad!
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My ten year old grandson loves my postcards, but mum doesn’t encourage him to send one back. 😞
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OH I could say so much about that, I won’t 🙂
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I hope one day he will send me one of his own accord.
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I actually had many penpals and you have just reminded me of them. Such a lovely thing to do as a youngster! Love this post x would frame the imagery. So beautiful
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Thanks, Orla. Good thing to do between grandchild and grandparents even if they live just down the road, as it would seem children have difficulty with handwriting and sentence structure.
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It is a super idea. I will be keeping it in mind😊
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Mrs Bryntin, even in this age of the electronic and on just a day out, still dives into a gift shop, grabs a handful of postcards and writes and sends them by post from where we are. (I wrote that out in case somebody really young didn’t know how it worked.)
I must admit, it is lovely to get them from others who have caught this old-fashioned custom from her as well.
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I used to do it, then the old budget and expensive mailing systems around the world stopped me in my tracks. Funny thing is I still love buying cards and will give them to people when I see them. Lovely to hear that Mrs Bryntin still does it, good on her 🙂
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I love those magazine covers!
I remember having a Pen Pal at school and looking forward to reading her letters. Also, my Dad used to travel a lot when he retired. I always enjoyed receiving postcards from him from the various places he visited, and trying to decipher his spidery handwriting! I still have them on a corkboard in my kitchen.
I hope the art of letter (and postcard) writing never dies too.
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Thanks Judy, aren’t those magazine covers great, luckily I was able to use them. I still have letters written to me from Nana, 50 years old some of them and one written at age 5 “Thanks for my penny” 🙂 Yes, I too hope that the art of letter writing never dies.
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Women’s Weekly I believe my mother still has it delivered and penpals I had forgotten so many years ago and we lost touch …I used to love the feel of that airmail paper so thin 🙂
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Carol yes they are still publishing the WW in Australia, England and NZ. It was so thin, I used to think it was going to be ripped up before anyone got to read the letter!
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I think that magazine will around fo ever and I have to admit to liking it as well
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You are right now it is a big deal to have snail mail arrive! My sister moved out west when I was ten and mail is how I got to know her growing up.
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That would have been fun writing to your sister 🙂
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I used to love both postcards and pen-pals!
I’d be really happy if any friend went on holiday as it was so exciting to receive a card with a photo of wherever they were!
I had pen pals in France and Ireland. I think I still have their letters in a shoebox.
Kids are still writing to each other sometimes. I volunteered a while ago to translate letters from Japanese school kids to UK kids. (I even have a bunch of them to translate next week!) I always look forward to them as they are sooo sweet! Although I often have to google things as they watch TV programs and play video games that I have never heard of!
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Josy, what an interesting job translating would be and tiring I expect!! With so many different TV/video programs available for young people well done you for finding them let along translating them.and what a challenge it would be to do it with children!
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It’s not really a job, I just do it as a volunteer (the Japanese kids are from the region of Japan that was affected by the massive tsunami a few years ago, so the project was started for them!)
It IS really interesting though! It gives me some idea about what little’uns care about!
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I am sure they appreciate more you will ever know 🙂
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God I remember penpal letters. I would wait for the mailman and be so excited to receive 2-3 letters then disappointed on days I never got any. Now I don’t even go to the mailbox for days, knowing it’s going to be just bills.
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Even with bills we can get those on line. I wonder how long before they get rid of the postie jobs!!
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Well here in America, there has been an increased in post offfices closing. No need for them with the exception of all the crap we buy online, you know!
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Oh yes, I haven’t brought anything online for ages Angela. Private courier companies will be flourishing!
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What is jelly tip ice cream?
I had a penpal from England long ago. I wonder where her letters are or if I could reconnect. I completely forgot!
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The raspberry jelly is at the top of the ice cream on a stick then covered in chocolate. Lovely. Be fun to find out about your letters.
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I searched wordpress for “pen pals” and your post came up. I started writing postal pen pals as a teen back in the 1980’s and I have never stopped. Yes, I still write letters by post to pen friends. We still exist! : )
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That’s interesting that my post came up, thanks for letting me Laura. Yes, I will check your post out. Well done for keeping up with your penpals, not as easy task. Postal services have become very inefficient and costly. Though it is always lovely to receive something other than a bill in the letterbox 🙂
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Thanks Suzanne. I still find the postal service quite efficient, except for certain countries like Russia and India – where lost mail seems the norm. I’m in the US, and currently write people in the US, Australia, Tasmania, and Europe – and our letters go back and forth quickly.
The US still has reasonable postal rates, but I know in certain countries it is getting rather pricey! My pen pal in Finland is paying more and more to post letters, and mail delivery days has decreased. (We still get mail delivered 6 days a week in the US.)
But then again, is it really that costly? Think about what some people spend monthly on their cellphone service, internet service, computer gadgets, etc – it can ad up to a lot. Maybe postage stamps aren’t so expensive after all? : )
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Reblogged this on Life at No.22 and commented:
Today, there is a bit of action happening on my blog.
Firstly, today Globalhousesitterx2 became Life at No.22. My social media accounts such as Pinterest, Instagram will still be known as Globalhousesitterx2 until I work out how to do the change successfully. Hopefully, this won’t prove to be confusing to everyone including me!!
Regards to the new title it seems more fitting a description at this stage of our lives. As we are no longer travelling fulltime and are now spending more time in New Zealand. Though we are still holding onto a small glimmer of hope that we can fulfill a few housesitting commitments this year. The next month will reveal whether this will be a reality or not. While still remembering our most important responsibility is to ensure the Squire is happy, healthy as can be and doing what he wants to do with his time. Not sure what I am referring too? Then have a read of https://globehousesitterx2.com/2018/12/31/hello-2019-we-cancer-vive/
Secondly, my blog turned 3 years old. Hard to believe she is that old!! I have loved every moment, well nearly every moment as a newbie blogger.
Last but not least is acknowledging the overwhelming support we have received from friends, family and my blogging friends.
With regards to all you bloggers out there, this post I wrote about penpals of past, made me realise how much I enjoy having you all in my life. You are penpals just in a different way from using a pen, paper and the use of snail mail.
Again a big thank you, goes out to you all. Hopefully, you will have time to read the blog below.
Suzanne X
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